A DIFFERENT OUTLOOK ON REJECTION

Successful people always reject REJECTION.

However, Rejection has always been the hard way out for all of us. We all fear it and somehow try to neglect it in every aspect. In fact, this is the reason why we don't even try to achieve certain things because we fear of rejection and being doomed.

When we talk about having a different outlook on rejection, it is not easy to develop it just because we realize that it is good for us. We also need to first know what normally happens to all of us when we face rejection. Rejection has five stages and here it is

Breaking this cycle and developing your own way of handling rejection is the best way possible. As soon as you face rejection it is quite natural to feel upset about it as you might have worked really hard and gave your best towards it but still couldn't do it.

Therefore, there can be two reasons for rejection:

1. It was not your best shot towards achieving what you dreamt of.

2. It was not meant for you and you deserve something else.

Trust me these very reasons for rejection should be your outlook towards it.. When you let rejection bother you, you kind of take away the very second chance of trying again, from yourself . Part time commitment truly does give you part time results. Try to skip the 1st ,3rd and 4th step. What I mean is, when you face a rejection it is quite normal for us to develop anger which can be taken into stride and quickly adapt the final i.e the 5th step- ACCEPTANCE. Accepting rejection requires a lot of strength but remember don't self judge or self worth yourself based on your rejection.

Ways to develop a rejection free mind:

1. Absorb the situation and calm yourself down. Thinking it over and over again is going to make it worse.

2. Becoming mentally strong and learning from your rejection is the best way to avoid further more rejections in life. Rejections will make you try things that are completely out of your comfort zone and your growth statistics will be tremendous.

3. Push yourself into achieving what you so desire because rejections will try to drain down your levels of 'trying' but you need to develop a firm believe system in yourself. Do not allow rejection to define yourself.

4. Lastly, don't let rejections kill your ideas and your ability to work further. It will come and go. Don't give much attention to it. Make your mission your obsession and your gifts will become your glory.

Now, check this video by Jia Jiang who teaches you to handle rejection by giving you practical ideas on how he handled it by simply performing some rejection dares. It will be even more fun if you check his website https://www.rejectiontherapy.com/ where he gives some dares to help people out by making them more familiar to rejection so that when they actually face it they are ready to beat it with the right strategy.

I hope I have given enough content to help people out with rejection. Rejection has always been a course correction to your destiny but very few people take it in the right stride. It's important for people to give more pressure on issues like REJECTION because this is a thing that affects us the most but is also a thing we don't prefer to talk about. The fear of rejection is worse than rejection so please keep trying and don't GIVE UP.