This is definitely one thing that you must have- CONFIDENCE.

In our society CONFIDENCE is viewed as a ' good to have' rather than ' a must have'. And this is something that we really need to turn our balls into. Every single time you fall and your intensity to achieve that thing decreases, your confidence comes into play and refuels you with the same energy that you had started with.

It is confidence that stops you from focusing on your deficiencies and celebrating your amazing qualities. Looking at the sunny side of every situation is not a weakness or a way to run from your reality but a habit you need to inculcate because every experience- good or bad, you learn from it. Confidence gives you the courage to face any experience without any fear of failure. Here is a video that reformed my ideas on confidence and gave me a way to spark.

Here is a thing, you can't change your levels of confidence in just one day. This is a thing that also teaches you patience. Trust me when you are finally filled with confidence it reflects on your personality, your way of looking at things changes, people start seeing a difference in you and your decisions become firm and strong.

Ways for developing confidence.

Now how to develop such an important element in your life is the main question.

1. Start doing things that your afraid of repeatedly(in the context of what is right:)). For eg. if you fear public speaking, force yourself to go on the stage and give a speech in every possible event and with time you will overcome your fear. Hence now, public speaking is no longer your weakness but your strength.

2. Don't take rejections seriously. These are just ways to test your will power and make sure that you are able to survive bigger hurdles in life.

3. Affirm yourself. ' सबकी सुनो पर अपनी करो ' which means ' Listen to others but do your own'. Always do what you feel is right but remember that doesn't stop you from taking advices;)

4. Get Things Done. Confidence is built on accomplishment. Once you achieve even a little thing that you had planned to, your self confidence increases immensely.

5. Lastly, do not give up to mediocrity in life. There is nothing called 'grey', it's either black or white.

CONFIDENCE is the only thing that sets you apart from a crowd. Be stubborn and resilient to develop this outstanding quality. Make your life count with one little step of yours today ie. building confidence.