Change= Yes; Reason= YOURSELF

Changing something you are blessed with isn't something to be looked down on but you need to make sure your doing it for the right reason. And the main reason should be "YOURSELF".

It's hard to let go of the comments you get about your body size and figure. I agree. Because believe me i have felt this too. But when you start a resolution to bring a change in yourself make sure that you do it for self worth or for increasing your confidence instead of doing it for others. Your body is yours and when you decide to change it you do it for yourself and nobody else. Having said that you can also own up to your body without changing it.

Don't value of what others say. These are the people who will only bring you down making you conscious about yourself every single day like a maniac or pushing you into the vicious cycle of 'being perfect'. Trust me the only 3 things that you should have in your life is 1. knowledge 2. courage 3. confidence.

Life is already too busy and complicated and what you need the most to stand out are those 3 things. Don't make it more difficult for yourself to own up to the expectations of the people who only notice you when in power. INstead use your time to get to that position of power and improve yourself only when your satisfied and ready to go through the change for YOURSELF.