BULLYING- A NATURE OF COWARDS!

Bullying has always been one of the top reasons for emotional wounds than the physical ones. They affect our lives in such a great degree that we refuse to forget such events and they keep haunting us in our present and future too.

I didn't know that bullying can hurt someone so deeply and create a scar that stays with you forever and ever, until I saw this video. He portrays his bullying experience in a genius way and makes you realise the fact that it is the the scars that make you even stronger.

TYPES OF BULLYING:

THE ROOT- CAUSES OF BULLYING:

They tend to attack these groups of people and make their time hard at school or it can be anywhere. Bullying is most harmful when it is attacked indirectly more than when it is direct to the victim. This takes them down slowly to a very vulnerable state and they end up getting caught under shades of depression and anxiety. This stage takes them to their 'FRAGILE' state of mind and ultimately the last stage arrives i.e suicide. So BULLIES are basically MURDERERS!

THE SHOCKING IMPACTS OF BULLING:

1. A research shows that the victims of teenage bullying face a 40% greater risk for mental health problems by the time they hit their mid-20s.

2. Young adults with a history of adolescent bullying may also see their odds for unemployment spike by 35%, investigators found

3. By age 25, those who had been bullied as teens were much more likely to have mental health issues such as depression and anxiety, and to struggle with finding a job, the study found.

4. A study even found that bullying can have long-lasting negative effects on young people's lives.

We can go on and on with these lists of impacts and effects of BULLYING on teenagers especially. But we need solutions on how we can cope this out.

SOLUTIONS:

1. Developing resilience, grit, courage and self- esteem is the best way to carve your way out through bullying.

2. Treat bullying with KINDNESS. One day you will realise that they were all wrong and you have left them far behind you. Those labels that were given to you will no longer matter to you that once did.

3. Anti- Bullying programs should be held in every school or anywhere concern to stop the BULLIES and encourage the VICTIMS.

4. Parents should make it a habit to ask their children about their day spent in school and bring up the topic on bullying letting them the comfort and surety that their parents are there to help them out in case any such event takes place.

Bullying has never helped anyone out, neither the BULLY nor the VICTIM. A bully does what he does out of deep sorrow and insecurities hidden in his heart and this is his way to let all those out. So a message to the bullies out there would be " BE A BUDDY NOT A BULLY."